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What does Proverbs 3:31 mean?

Don’t envy violent people or try to be like them. Proverbs 3:31 - Modern Text Bible

(Don’t admire or imitate those who use force or aggression to get what they want.)

Envying people who use force or aggression to get what they want leads down a dangerous path. The verse warns against admiring or copying the ways of those who gain power through violence. The Hebrew word for 'violence' is chamas, meaning cruelty, injustice, or wrongful force.

This pushes back against the idea that being ruthless or aggressive is the way to succeed. In every era, there are people who seem to win by being tough or intimidating, but this verse says their path isn't worth following.

If you ever feel tempted to admire people who get ahead by stepping on others, remember that real strength isn't about domination. The world needs people who choose fairness and kindness, even when it's not the fastest route to success. You don't have to become hard to survive—there are better ways to live.